Create a relationship that honors You.
Relationship Support for Women Overcome patterns of self compromise, codependence, people pleasing, over-giving,
losing yourself in relationship & more.
Wondering if you should stay or go?
Lacking clarity is the worst. It is one of the biggest drains on time, energy and personal power. But I get it, you're not sure if your frustrations are valid, if they're coming from your wounds or your projections or if he really does need to make some shifts. It is possible to move from feeling frustrated and unfulfilled with your partner and hungry for clarity on the next direction to knowing exactly what you need to do and what you need in order to create a fulfilling relationship that honors your true self, in your fullest expression with no more self compromise. // or relate to self compromise symptoms
How?
After co-hosting a sexuality and relationship podcast that reached 60,000 people a month, this is what I learned.
In the middle of recording an episode, I realized that no matter how much relationship advice and problem solving skills we provided, the disappointment, despair and lack women experienced were never going to go away as long as they were waiting on something to change over there. For him to go to therapy, change his approach, to find a better partner. The deep, subconscious conditioning I saw revealed we rely on them as the primary source for these feelings instead of ourselves. And when we do this, we get reactive, disappointed and stuck in despair and longing.
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My mission then became to develop a process to help us overcome this conditioning and become our own power source once more.
But what about him?
I know, he's no innocent. Things need to change on all fronts. This is not a transfer of responsibility from him to you. But we need to get you full, fat and happy on your own nourishment, on reconnection with you which will change how you see and feel about everything. Because you will be in your power and your truth, and this is where we need to approach the sticky points from.
Start here
*Not happy with him at the moment?*
In this free class, I share a 3 step process (plus bonus!) that teaches you how to transform the 'problems' in your relationship. Move from being stuck in gnarly feelings like disappointment and resentment, into clarity, peace and fulfillment.
Testimonials
"Stephanie has a keen wisdom, deep empathy, and unique life experience that i believe makes her a perfect guide for anyone seeking to expand their self awareness and feel a sense of mastery in their own lives. I have always known Stephanie to be on the cutting edge of what is most needed right now. I attribute this to her practiced intuition and experienced one-on-one client work."
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~Christina Hepburn,
Professional Cuddler & Thought Leader on the Healing Effects of Touch in Our Culture (NBC, MTV, Refinery29)
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"Stephanie helped me through a tough transition and she continues to help me regularly! She was absolutely critical to my partner and mine’s success; attentive, knowledgeable, genuine and empathetic. I didn't feel nervous or have any discomfort communicating my challenges to her. I would highly recommend Stephanie to anyone. I know I met her as a client, but she is so easy to relate to, I feel like she has become a true friend! Work with her, it will definitely be worth it! Promise!
~B.A.
Washington, DC
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Stephanie’s ability to illuminate my true path forward impressed me. She helped me discover some hidden fears and needs I was avoiding that were creating a lot of turmoil both in my personal and professional life. Her way of working with you gives you the ability to help yourself going forward, she teaches you to be the teacher. Stephanie develops your abilities to evaluate and see what is important by bringing out the best way for you to do things, not just the way she evaluates the situation, which makes working with her extremely empowering. I am so grateful for my time with her.
~S.P.
About me
I started working with relationships when I was 5 years old. I began observing patterns of getting the love and attention I needed that I knew weren't serving me and so I consciously began changing them. I wasn't always successful! And certainly had some missteps. For the rest of my life this was my focus: How do I relate to this person or that person while feeling 100% good and confident in my own skin. This led me to co-creating a sexuality and relationship podcast that reached 60k people per month. From there, I wanted to work more directly with women to help us rise out of the debilitating relationship patterns and conditioning that were keeping us from being our most powerful selves. Thank you so much for being here.
