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It's Time to Stop Compromising Your Power.

AND BECOME THE GODDESS YOU WERE BORN TO BE.

DO YOU FEEL YOUR NEEDS AREN'T BEING MET IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

When we have negative reactions in our relationships, it’s often because we feel our needs aren’t being met by the other person.  But what if I told you we don’t actually need the other person to fill our needs for us to feel happy and fulfilled?  This is one of the biggest illusions we grow up to believe about relationships.  Yes, it is very important our needs are met to feel peaceful, secure and cared for, but it is actually US who needs to meet them.  

 Every time we have a negative reaction to our partner, there is a part of us that has been compromised for the sake of feeling loved. That part of us is literally crying out for attention through our relationship. But it’s actually OUR attention, OUR acceptance, and OUR affection it longs for. By learning to steer our attention away from our partner fulfilling us and back toward ourselves, we reclaim our power from the relationship and become our most balanced, powerful, peaceful and effective selves. 

From this place, we have the power to inspire change in our relationship.  Because after working with men for nearly ten years, the number one thing I learned was: Women Set the Tone.

Feminism From the Inside Out

MY PHILOSOPHY